Interactive Tools
Research-backed assessments designed to help you understand your desires, strengthen your connection, and build the relationship you want.
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01 — Assessment
Take our research-backed assessment to understand where your relationship stands and get personalized recommendations for deepening connection.
5 minutes. 25 questions. Personalized insights.
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02 — Assessment
Explore the six currencies of desire and discover how you express it, experience it, and how it interacts with your partner’s desires.
8 – 10 minutes. 30 questions. Self-discovery.
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Be among the first to explore your erotic currency when this assessment becomes available in August 2026.
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Exclusively for readers of The Formula of Desire
What Desire Feels Like Across Stages
Passionate Desire
You feel wanted, emotionally safe, and physically close. Intimacy is natural, mutual, and fulfilling.
Active Desire
You feel connected, but stress or life demands may occasionally disrupt closeness. Repairs are effective, and desire is still strong.
Present Desire
The connection exists but feels inconsistent. Intimacy requires effort and may be more impacted by outside stressors.
Stalled Desire
You care about each other, but something is missing. Conversations tend to be practical, and physical affection may be routine or entirely absent.
Dormant Desire
You feel alone, even when you’re together. Intimacy is minimal, and disconnection may be longstanding or difficult to overcome.